如果妳說的是真的話,就請妳看看我的想法:www2.tvboxnow.com/ r7 ]. C {* }: M: s. j, e! i
# K+ W. v" |( {$ ~9 y ]: `* H2 V# Gtvb now,tvbnow,bttvb 首先、应把爱和世俗分开來、爱是無法控制或循規蹈距的、可以拿揑或控制的就不是真爱 o 你目前的身份与价值觀是錯誤的‧但爱本身是值得歌颂的、你肯为他付出、他老婆肯为他牺牲都是值得表揚的、你們都付出你們纯真的一面、、、‧这是爱 o 你不用去担心世人的說法、因为爱就像試穿買鞋一般、冷暖自知別人是無法体会的、所以对爱、我肯定你的執著与付出 otvb now,tvbnow,bttvb, b% [) R# o" _3 m: j
0 D# D; }; W2 ]! e 但这篇文章中並未提及到你家人的看法如何?当我们談完爱后是不是再看看現實面、在此不多說道理、你週遭朋友親人肯定提及許多 o 想提醒你只有20初頭歲、感性与理性來說可能感性大了些、听过大陸追星族追劉德華的例子吧!為了追星搞到老爸去自殺、后來再懊悔也於事無補、甚至对劉德華有恨意、这就徧激了、也就是所謂的賠了夫人又折兵 o 隨著年紀的增長、慢慢的你的人生觀會變、价值觀也會變、再回頭看这段感情會不會覺得百感交集?會不會覺得欣慰?值不值得留戀呢?但一句話、千萬別搞到后悔、別傷到無辜的人、敢爱就敢承坦对自己負責o公仔箱論壇3 \2 |$ P7 L% d" O" G" v; E, E
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最后、祝福你和你身旁的人、希望在你追求自己慾望的同时也能被旁人歌頌、要知道很多人在他们一身中甚至不知道什麼是真爱、轟轟烈烈是什麼感受、而你.......都擁有了......夫復何求呢!!!!再一次祝福你和你週圍的人有美好的人生......作者: saiwa 時間: 2007-5-10 12:48 AM
love is not everything, you still have to come back to the reality. the thing is, if he's a good man, he wouldn't have an affair with you when he was married with two kids. just because the happiness of your own, you have sacrifice his wife, and the kids. you have also lost your dignity. if you said you have grew up in a single parent family, and you know the harm does it to the kids. did you ever think about how the kids would feel when their dad is bring another woman into the house. do you not think that has affect?公仔箱論壇 A7 g' V' f; T0 D' ~ C. ]
there no reason or any way you can justify yourself when you're the open crashes someone else's family. just put yourself in the shoe. would you ever want your husband to bring another woman to lived with you? you love him very much, but love like this one, would never last.作者: ironeagle 時間: 2007-5-10 05:13 AM
i dont know作者: Carmen8244 時間: 2007-5-10 06:57 AM
Love is hard. As long as you think that is what you should do. I think you should go for it. Because not everyone has this kind of braveless. I hope you are happy.作者: qimeihe 時間: 2007-8-17 01:19 PM
stupid you don't even know what you are talking about. If his family wants a boy why did he ask you to kill 2 of your babies? Crazy............!!