i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.; Q8 v# A% o- N, [: x3 u; i' S
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i love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy. 2 H" k; p# E; f$ d& X, Q
]3 ]* c) k" G* n4 ?公仔箱論壇for me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it.
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; @5 w7 D0 z* M$ ?4 c" e% D公仔箱論壇if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |